With Christmas next week, I just had to write something about gift giving.
First, to the guys who need to buy something for their wives or girlfriends (hopefully you don’t have both).
Here are some rules:
- When in doubt, go down a size. Do I need to explain?
- Never give a gift that suggests your spouse is not perfect. No unsolicited exercise equipment, self-help books, wrinkle cremes or nose-hair removers.
- Appliances and cookware are ok, ONLY if she asks for them
- Don’t even think about a gift that you will get more enjoyment out of than your spouse. Probably don’t need to explain this one either.
- When all else fails, at least try to create memories.
Ok, now let’s talk about your kids!
Is it possible to spend less on what your kids don’t really need and spend more on things they will remember? This works for us..may not work for you until your kids get older, but…..
When we lived in Brazil we decided to quit buying as many gifts at Christmas and start trying to make Christmas more memorable. Like I said, this is a lot easier when your kids get older. A 5 year old has a hard time understanding “No, Timmy…we aren’t getting presents this year…we want to create memories.”
So far our Christmas memories include a hot springs hotel for 4 days, Christmas dinner with Shamu, a four hour guided trip through some underground caves in Chattanooga, and the Dixie Stampede in Pigeon Forge, TN. One of the cool things is that if you think far enough ahead you can get a lot better price for everything than if you call and reserve everything in December.
Ask our kids…I don’t think they will say they have really missed getting a whole lot of gifts. We do still get a few things, but we don’t overdo it and we really try to focus on what the holidays are all about…chilling out, relaxing and spending some great time together.
I would give anything to make that Christmas trip to Granny’s house this year….I remember going to my Granny’s house for Christmas…
CREATE MEMORIES…..You won’t regret it and you don’t have to worry whether or not it fits or if they will like what you got them……
Merry CHRISTmas!!!
John
John,
You brought tears to my eyes. I am so proud to call you my cousin. Seems like you have grown up to be a great man, proud husband and father. I know your Mom and Dad are looking down on you with huge smiles thinking “that’s my son”!
I remember going to Granny’s house for Christmas too. We have a really good family…
I hope you, Linda and the kids have a Merry CHRISTmas and create some memories that will last a lifetime.
Lots and Love,
Kelley
Good advice John. Have any advice about what to give THE MAN of the house. Struggled with this issue for years. Merry CHRISTmas to you and your wonderful family.