The following statement is taken from TLC Jon & Kate plus 8 website:
During this very difficult time we will be working to focus solely on the needs of our family. This includes no longer commenting publicly or reacting to media stories and speculation. Our goal is to do the very best for our children and that will be done as privately as possible. We appreciate the understanding, support and well wishes from so many.
I must admit that I came home the other night anxious to see what was going to happen. The funny thing is that I had never watched the show before, just heard about it from friends and family.
I just want to make a comment or two about this.
I hope I don’t ever come to the point in my marriage or my parenthood and say…”during this very difficult time we will be working to focus solely on the needs of our family.” I pray that everyday I focus solely on the needs of my family. How are you doing with that this week?
I don’t know anything about Jon or Kate; I didn’t watch the show. But, I do know this: Whatever the issues, whatever the problems, whatever the future holds for this family…..the kids (8 of them) are the ones who stand to be affected the most by the decision of the parents. Was it the lure of the money involved that caused this whole situation? I can’t help but think that there were underlying issues long before the cameras came around, but who knows.
Parents, don’t let the lure of money affect the way you bring up your children. Is it ultimately worth it to have a nicer house but see your kids only on the weekend? Is it worth it to be able to give your kids all the things that you think they “need”? When your kids move out and go to college, what will you look back and say? Will you say, I wish they would have had more things……or will you say, I wish I would not have spent so much time with them? I know that sounds stupid, but think about it….what are we showing our kids with the way we work and try to “provide” for them? What do they need for them or us to say that we are “providing” for them?
OK, I am on a soap box…. I just can’t stand seeing some of the parenting that I see from day to day…..strong I know, but life only goes around once, our kids are only at home for a little while, and then they move on…..
What will you give your kids? THINGS? or YOU?
i like this one. i think alot of people need to read it. whether they be a parent, or will soon be.
I totally agree. We must value the time that we spend with our kids and our spouse! I am so thankful that God led me to teach. I have always said it is the next best thing to being a stay at home mom! As for Jon & Kate, it is devastating to watch this family fall apart.
This is a much needed topic to write about and I hope that many will read it because the present times can be SO busy for parents AND the kids. Making time to spend as a family is one that happens to us, especially when the electricity goes out. It’s sad that for sure it happens then,but I’m glad when the lights go out because I know “family” time will come in and my kids even know that. Making a point in going out for a slushy or walking in the mall, doing something with your child to let them know you LOVE them will speak SOOO loud. Thanks John for the words.